If your boyfriend informs you he is GAY! what to do.

What will you do when your boyfriend tells you he’s
GAY??..
My dear calm down.. Its not the worst situation ever. Try apply these clues :

1. Don’t take this personal – Its never your fault that he is gay.

To anyone this completely a blow
to your ego. You might even be tempted to
joke about not being able to keep a guy
straight. But listen to what you’re saying: How
is keeping someone straight a good thing?
Being gay is nobody’s fault, and straight is no
better than gay. So whatever you do, do not
take this personally. His sexual orientation is
not about you.
2. Put yourself in his shoes
Before allowing yourself to believe that your
life has been ruined, put yourself in his
position. Rather than allowing both of you
continue living a lie in a relationship with
someone who is not themselves , be as accepting
as you can.
3. Appreciate his willingness to tell  you the truth
Ponder , for a moment, about the amount of
strength and courage he had to muster up to
tell you the truth, knowing that it would quiver
the life you’ve built together. It may not feel
like it, but this sets you both free and opens up
your path for the love that’s meant to be
yours.
4. Be supportive – he didn’t do this to hurt
you
You do not need to be his super heroine or be
a martyr by his side through every waking
moment. But a word of encouragement like,
‘It’s going to be okay,” can make all the
difference for the both of you.
5. Respect his privacy – forget what others
might think
This matter is between you and him, so don’t
worry about what your friends and family might
think. It is, quite frankly, none of their
business. Coming out about one’s sexuality is a
very personal decision and you might be the
first person he’s telling. He also may not be
planning to tell anyone else just yet, but his
intention is to let you know what he’s going
through so the two of you can interact on that, make
amends if necessary or resolve to good terms  before its made a bit Public.