Men only seek one thing from women

Over the years, women has always been enlightened that men
are after a particular thing, and therefore they need to
manage it in such a way that it will keep men
interested. Some truth May lie in it.
Many of us have already jumped to the
conclusion that it is SEX . Others have more
conservative thoughts and thus believe it is
good food. After all, the fastest way to man’s
heart is through the stomach, isn't it?
If men were so simple and straightforward, it
would be logical to conclude that after having
been given sex or great food, they would have
remained with their respective partners, right?
Following the same argument, one would
conclude that all chefs and women who
engage in casual encounters would be happily
married by now.
However, statistics show that after men have
had sex, they are no longer as interested in the
lady as before, unless the natural urges rise
again at some other time in future.
Sex is a basic need, so is food. Once these
two are satisfied, people move on into
important matters of life, matters that have the
potential of leaving behind a legacy.
It is these higher purposes of life that ladies at
times fail to connect with their respective
partners.
Men normally have a vision and mission in life;
it is deeply wired in every man.

At times, they do need help to realize it and
fulfill it and a wise woman will help her man
achieve it - and many have.
Yet when it comes to human beings, we have a
free will to choose. A wise man will appreciate
his wise lady and vice versa and together they
can build a legacy, a life of growth and
progress.
A foolish man will misuse a wise woman, and
likewise a foolish woman may also misuse a
wise man and keep finding fault with him in
spite of putting his right foot forward.
The one thing a man seeks is companionship.
Sex and food are secondary when it comes to
having a healthy relationship. Men are normally
considered emotionless and are thus given only
the basics and then expected to comply with
every demand of their partner.
Few ladies really know what their men are
about; most just make wild guesses about
what they want and not what they are giving.
Or worse still, they give what they think a man
needs, not what their man is asking for.
Companionship demands that partners accept
each as they are, as well as challenge each
other to grow into better selves.
It is in being open, naked and unashamed with
each other that a healthy relationship can be
wrought.
When they see each other’s weaknesses, they
support each other, not blast each other.
Remember ye that the man is the head of the home,
and the rest of the body will be more
harmonious once it attach with the head.